1970 - Advisory Team #80
at Ca Mau (formerly An Xuyen Province, since renamed): SP/4, Advisory
Team #80, Signal Detachment - DEROS arrived and my last day at Advisory Team #80. Ca Mau was filled
with the flurry of activity and a whole load of mixed emotions for me.
It was both hard and easy to say good-bye ... the brothers and loved
ones would be missed ... the place of life, death and near-death ...
the place of growing up and growing too old ... the anticipation of
"The World" ... all ran together and is still there to be
sorted when the memories come.
Two partings remain in the foreground: This little guy with the
crutches was an intermittent but constant friend during my tour. The photo
was taken a short time after my arrival in-country. He had fallen victim,
during play time, to a VC booby trap. From there he went on to make a slow
recovery. He was always ready with a smile whenever I went by his place,
or saw him in the village. I hadn't seen him for a while, toward the end
of my tour, and wondered if his family had moved out of the area. Then
came the day to leave Ca Mau .... Our hooch maid, Ti-Ti
(she was short even for a Vietnamese) had been a faithful friend and
council in the ways of local Vietnamese life. She was a woman of honor and
not one of the "bedded ones". On one occasion she even pulled me
away from some drunken guards who manned the local prison, expressing that
they were "number ten thou!!!" Something about Ti-Ti's
life and the whole weight of feeling grateful to her for real friendship
and diligent service prompted me to go to the PX that day and look for a
gift to show my appreciation and caring for her. It was a very small PX,
and at first glance revealed nothing. Then it came to me. A bottle of the
best, a bottle of well-aged Chivas Regal! Taking it back to my
hooch, I drew her aside and expressed my love and affection by presenting
it to her with the words "for Papa-San" (meaning, for her
husband. It would have been bad culture to have given it to her directly).
I knew it would be a valuable gift given the local economy, but when she
broke into tears of gratitude and returned my affection, I also began to
break! A few minutes later she called me to help explain to the front gate
guard the gift so she could leave the compound with it, and again the
smiles and teary-eyed good-bye!
A short time later found me in a jeep headed for the airstrip and final
departure from Ca Mau. The heat of the day no longer bothered me like the
first blast at Cam Ranh Bay. The word of my gift and departure must have
spread, 'cause just at the airfield entrance stood the boy ... healthy
and strong and with the quiet look of admiration and respect ... and
trust. We paused so I could say good-bye He ran up to me and without a
word pressed the treasure into my hand, backing away with a wave. We drove on into the
airfield toward the awaiting Caribou. Tears began to come to my eye, and
they still do today, as I looked into my hand ... at the Treasure! A
little plastic duck ... a treasure of inestimable value from his heart
to mine ... to keep ... and remember him by! And I do remember him
and Ti-Ti and I still have the little duck. They will always be ... a
treasure.
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