Larry:
I sort of remember our brother Jerry calling us up for that photo and
thinking that it was not fair because we were all veterans of the larger
Cold War--which we won under President Reagan, by the way.
Serving
the country during the Vietnam era was a challenge, regardless of where
one served. Some Vietvets today only consider those serving In-Country to
be Vietnam Veterans. I believe those serving in direct support of the war,
like the Air Force men and women in Guam, are also Vietvets. But the
question, if there is a question, is what or why do Vietvets (or of
any war) feel different? Notice I said, "different" and
not "better."
I
do not know what it was like to serve in the hell of WWII Germany, or
peacetime Cold-War Germany. I do know what it is like to stand before The
Wall in DC carved with 58,229 names of those men and women
killed-in-action in Vietnam. I know what it is like to write a letter to a
friend's family after he was--yes, blown-away. And to touch his
cold granite-etched name, knowing his 19 year old body is long since dust
in a nearby cemetery.
So,
what does it come down too? Vietnam Veterans are more inclined to have
memories of sucking chest wounds rather than barrels full of
nude-women and sucking more than a thumb. And yes, horrible things did
happen, I remember things like three flatbed trucks racing through Đà Nẵng's main gate with bodies of Vietnamese in tangled piles . . . and
standing post staring at the blood-trails with flies gorging for several
more hours. Does that make us better, or different than
non-war-vets? It just makes us what we are: Veterans of the Vietnam War,
and proud of those who served with us.
[Readers:
In 1968 the War was indeed raging. A peace time Army would not have
accepted my brother Larry's enlistment. But in 1968, 98.6 got you in and a
letter from your Congressman kept you out (right Bill?),
so they accepted Larry's enlistment, collapsed lung and all. I have on
occasion wondered if an Army doctor had made a notation not to send him to
a combat zone because of that. I also know that policy was not to send two
brothers to Vietnam at the same time, and brother Jerry was In-Country
while Larry was in Germany.] Don Poss
Subject:
Vietnam Era Vets and We Wore The Same
Dog tags
From : Tom Johnston Organization:
VVA 512
Yes,
we all did wear the same dog tags. Those of us who are non combat vets can
take a stand with pride, that we also served. Me, U.S.Navy 59-63.
Electricians Mate 2 (E-5), after boot camp and E.M. school then the rest
of my four years were spent on an ammo ship with the most time spent in
WESTPAC ferrying all kinds of munitions from the Philippines to our task
forces off the coast of Nam. For many years I denied the fact that I was a
Vet of that era, then I turned around and went on a self imposed guilt
trip that really took me down, I COULD HAVE DONE MORE. Now I hold my
brothers all in high esteem, for each combat vet, there are an uncountable
force of support personal, and we all did a job that doesn't sit well with
any of us, but we did it. Thanks to you for doing your job, and from the
bottom of my heart let me say WELCOME HOME ! Tom
Johnston VVA 512 (This is the first time I have ever contacted anyone
in this way.)
Response:
Thanks Tom. My little grunt-brother, Larry, wrote We
Wore The Same Dog tags. I have received a lot of positive feedback on
it. You're right, of course . . . what is it: 10 support for every combat
vet? and probably an equal number of support also in-country? Don Poss
Subject:
Glad We Wore The Same Dog tags
From : Robert A. Galloway
Dear
Brother Larry: I just read your story on your brother Don's website, and I
must respond:
I
call you "Brother", because that's what you are, having served
your time in the "Big Green". Do not feel any less a hero for
not having seen combat. There is nothing heroic about having been a
Vietnam COMBAT Veteran, per se. There is no heroism in survival. That's
what was foremost in the minds of the vast majority of us who spent time
in that vermin-infested Hellhole - simply "SURVIVE AND GET THE HELL
HOME!"
True, there were many medals for
"heroism" awarded to people who saved the lives of others at the
risk (and TOO many times the sacrifice) of their own , but those
individuals never considered themselves Heroes. Heroism is in the eye of
the beholder, or in the eye of the recipient of an extraordinary deed. All
that any Medal-Winner ever did was react to a situation in the manner in
which he had been trained (by people like yourself), automatically and
without thought of the consequences.
I enlisted in the US Army in September
1967. Upon experiencing the same fun things you did in boot camp, I
developed the same attitude toward Volunteerism. I never
"Volunteered" to go to Nam, but in a sense we ALL did - yourself
included, by raising our right hands and swearing before the symbol of our
country, we all volunteered to go and do anything the Government deemed
necessary. Call it "The Luck of the Draw" or whatever. I'll say
this: I never could understand the mentality that compels one to volunteer
for Combat Duty; to actually WANT to be able to have the opportunity to
kill another human being indicates to me some sort of serious basic defect
in the human psyche. I suppose that I had more than my share of those
experiences, but to this day I cannot muster up even the smallest shred of
pride in having taken another human life.
The pride, my friend, comes from knowing
that you raised your arm to the square, took an oath, and upheld it no
matter what. The pride comes from knowing that you took a chance that
damned few had the guts to take. To put one's self a notch above another
who "Wore the Same Dog Tags" simply because you saw combat and
he did not, is WRONG. That's what we were ALL trained for. People like you
trained the leaders that saw to it that I made it home alive. To those who
never had to take a human life in order to save his own or that of a
buddy, I say "THANK GOD - GOOD FOR YOU!" I wish to this day that
I had never had the experience. Every Viet Cong, NVA, and ChiCom soldier
that fought for his life in that War and lost, had someone at home whose
heart was ripped out when they never came back, and that fact haunts me to
this day. I SURVIVED: That is all I EVER wanted to do.
We are ALL Brothers, who wore the same dog
tags. We all took the same oath: Me, You, your brother Don, your niece's
husband the Desert Storm Vet, your own brother who (unconsciously) snubbed
you at the family gathering, even my own son who served in the US Navy on
a supply ship in the Pacific 5 years ago in "Peacetime". I put
that word in quotation marks, because I feel that there is no such thing
as "Peacetime" any more. We all take the same chance along with
The Oath - just some of us are UNFORTUNATE enough to find ourselves having
to use our training to survive.
God Bless you, Brother Larry Poss, and God
Bless all my Fellow Americans, male AND female, who raise their arms and
swear by our flag to "defend our way of life against all enemies,
foreign and domestic . . . etcetera."
We
all STILL "Wear the Same Dog Tags"!